Grief is Like a Screwdriver

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 Some days it tightens everything
 until breathing feels shallow,
 until even small moments
 require more strength than you have.

Other days it loosens without warning,
and you come apart quietly,
pieces of you slipping loose
before you realize what stirred the memory.

You cannot stop the turning.

You cannot force it to hold.

So you learn a different way to live,
moving gently with the tension,
steadied by what remains.

Not because the pressure is gone,
but because your love grows stronger
where it keeps turning.

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This metaphor will be featured in an upcoming book.   

Find my first book, Grief is Like a Donut, on Amazon:

Grief is Like a Donut offers gentle support for those navigating the heartache of loss. Beautifully illustrated and poetic, this book uses metaphors, and images to reflect the confusion, numbness, and unexpected pockets of sweetness that grief can bring.

Perfect for times when focus is difficult, each metaphor is independent, so the book can be read a little at a time and in any order. It is a companion for moments when you need to pause, reflect, or simply feel understood.

Rather than trying to define grief, this book illuminates the many ways loss shows up in our bodies, minds, and lives, offering comfort, validation, and the sense of being seen.

This metaphor will be featured in an upcoming book.   
Find my first book, Grief is Like a Donut, on Amazon:




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